1.每段不开心的过往，都有六段美好的经历。
1. You have six good experiences together for every bad one
好好解决冲突在于你可以“不动声色”表达出你的不同意见。
Good conflict resolution comes from being able to air you differences in an 'unemotional way'.
2.分歧过后，你做的不是亲一亲来弥补关系。
2. You do more than kiss and makeup when it's over
你们争执，至少说明你们对彼此还有兴趣。
If you are fighting at least you are interested enough in each other to argue.
3.你们在一起，无所事事也很开心。
3. You are happy doing nothing together
实际有益的关系既理性又现实。一个显著特征是你们可以安静地在一起什么都不干。
Pragmatic relationships are both rational and realistic. One strong defining feature is that you can be quiet together - and do absolutely nothing.
4.你们谈论自己。
4. You talk about yourselves.
如果你们不能谈论恋情，通常意味着暗潮汹涌。
If you can’t talk about the relationship, it's not good sign. It often means there are issues bubbling under the surface.
5.你的朋友们（多数）都同意
5. Your friends approve (mostly)
如果你自己没有勇气去相信，那你得听听你的朋友们、妈妈还有其他家庭成员的意见。
If you find it hard to trust your own gut then you need to listen to your friends, your mum or other members of your family.