1. 有损你的自尊
1. IT'S BAD FOR YOUR SELF-ESTEEM
追求一个没有注意你的男生会让你觉得自己不够好，会严重打击你的自尊。
Chasing after a guy who isn't noticing you makes you feel like you're not good enough and is a major blow for your self-confidence!
2. 太累了
2. IT'S EXHAUSTING
发短信、时刻关注他的社交媒体动态、在他家附近转悠等行为可能比你想象的还要累人……
The effort of texting, social media stalking and going round to his house is more tiring than you might think…
3. 现实一点
3. BE REALISTIC
如果你不得不追求他，那么很遗憾的告诉你，实际上他好像并没有那么喜欢你！
If you have to chase him, we're sorry to say it, but it looks like he's just not that into you!
4. 你是无法成功的
4. IT WOULD NEVER WORK OUT
即使你最终'追到了'他，但他也很有可能不是那种会做出承诺的男生，这样的感情并不健康。
Even if you did eventually 'catch' him, it's unlikely that he's the kind of guy that would be committed and it wouldn't be a healthy relationship!
5. 很明显，他不值得你的付出
5. HE'S CLEARLY NOT WORTH IT
你真的想要和一个让你一直追着他、和你玩心理游戏的男生在一起吗？
Do you really want to be with a guy who keeps you on the chase and plays mind games anyway?
6. 你会让自己心碎
6. YOU'RE SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR HEARTBREAK
你越是追求他，你对他付出的感情也就越多，当他不可避免的拒绝你时，你就会特别痛苦！
The more you chase him, the more you build up your feelings for him, making the rejection even more painful when it inevitably happens.
7. 错过更好的人
7. MISSING OUT ON SOMETHING BETTER
在你追求那个显然不是你真命天子的男生时，你可能会错过一些比较有趣的约会对象！
Whilst you're chasing after a guy who's clearly not The One, you could be missing out on other fun dating opportunities!
8. 你迷失了自我
8. YOU LOSE SIGHT OF YOURSELF
迷恋一个男生，一天24小时的想着他可能意味着你会忘记照顾自己、忘记重要的'自我时间'。
Obsessing over a guy and thinking about him 24/7 can mean that you forget about looking after yourself and having all important 'me time'.
9. 生活中比约会更重要的事还有很多！
9. THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN DATING!
除了忘记自己以外，追求一个男生还意味着你可能忘了自己的家人、朋友和工作。退后一步，考虑生活中的方方面面吧！
As well as forgetting about yourself, chasing after a guy can mean that you forget about your family, friends and work side of your life. Take a step back and put everything into perspective!
10. 会对以后的恋情造成影响
10. IT CAN AFFECT YOUR FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS
你正在冒险，你会以为谈恋爱都该女追男。额，女士们，我得告诉你们，一段健康恋情的基础是彼此相爱、而不是单恋。
You risk going go into future relationships thinking that all guys need to be chased. Well let us tell you ladies, a healthy relationship is based on mutual, not unrequited love!