"只不过在午夜时分亲了另一个姑娘，无所谓啦。"
"You just kissed a girl at midnight. Whatever."
"他第一次出轨的时候，我原谅了。当时是新年前夜，他在派对上喝醉了，然后告诉我他亲了另一个姑娘。所以我说，'没什么大不了，不过是在午夜时分亲了另一个姑娘，没关系啦。'"
"I forgave him after I found out about the first time he cheated on me. He was drunk at a New Year's Eve party, and he told me he kissed another girl. So I [said], 'It's not a big deal. You just kissed a girl at midnight. Whatever.'"
"总的来说，他工作拼命、也很优秀。"
"He worked his butt off to be a better person in general."
"总的来说，他工作拼命、也很优秀。不仅是为了我--也是为了他自己、以及他的未来，我认为这才是最重要的。我们做了很多沟通方面的工作。6年后，我们比他出轨前的状态要幸福1000倍。出轨让我们变得更亲密。"
"He worked his butt off to be a better person in general. It wasn't just for me - it was for him and his future, which I think made the biggest difference. We worked intensely on our communication. Six years later, we are 1,000 times happier than we were before he cheated. It brought us closer."
"他希望我们有更好的将来，发誓会做出改变。"
"He wanted better for us and vowed to change."
"自出轨事发后，已经四年了。当他真正意识到我居住的公寓位于一个危险的街区时，我想我原谅了他。意识到这一处境对他打击颇深。他说他不希望自己的女朋友和儿子在这种公寓环境下生活。"
"It's been over four years since the cheating, and what I think really made it work was [him seeing the apartment I got in a dangerous neighborhood] … it really hit him hard that this was where we were. He said he did not want his girlfriend and son living in this apartment.
"他希望我们过得更好，也发誓会做出改变，事实上他的确做到了。我们已经在一起13年，现在，我们生活得很开心。我百分百的信任他，他也很信任我。"
"He wanted better for us and vowed to change, and he did. We have been together for 13 years ... we are happy with the way things are now. I trust him 100%, and he trusts me as well."
"如果他试图隐瞒出轨或一而再再而三的犯错，那我肯定不会原谅他。"
"If he had tried to hide it or it was a recurring thing, it wouldn't have turned out the same."
"另一半出轨后我还是原谅了他。出轨后的那天早上，他就将这件事告诉了我。如果他试图瞒着我，或者继续出轨，那我肯定不会原谅他。有时候，原谅也有助于事态的发展。我对我们的未来非常乐观！"
"I forgave my significant other after [he cheated]. He told me about it the morning after it happened. If he had tried to hide it or it was a recurring thing, it wouldn't have turned out the same. Sometimes, it works out. I'm very optimistic about our future together."
"我开始配合夫妻咨询，渐渐地，我们放下了防备。"
"I started putting effort into the counseling, and both of our walls came down."
"我发现丈夫出轨了，我想离婚，但他不愿意。我同意配合夫妻治疗，但也请了离婚律师。我不知道该说她是最棒的还是最遭的离婚律师，因为她让我意识到我还爱他。"
"I found out my husband cheated. I wanted a divorce, he didn't. I agreed to go to counseling but also met with a divorce attorney. I don't know if it was the greatest or worst divorce attorney, but she made me realize I still loved him.